If you want to be a strong independent dater as a woman, these are the things you need to do.
Believe in yourself: Don’t let anyone try to tell you that you are or try and make you feel less than what you know you are. Know who you are.
Don’t be afraid to approach men: They like it because it rarely happens to them. If you can do it in a cute way, you’ll stand out.
Learn how to approach men in a feminine way: Women should approach differently than men. We have the luxury of being more subtle about it. Less in their face, less direct. Like the classic, “Have we met before? You look so familiar,” then going in for a conversation with them. Or asking them to help you reach or open something, like the door. Combine those things with touching your hair, smiling, and touching their arm, and you’ll be on your way to a date in no time.
Compliment men: Fluff their egos a bit and see how they reciprocate. Then see how their reciprocation makes you feel. Then lather, rinse, and repeat.
But most importantly, have fun while you’re out there dating. All of these things will allow you to exude confidence when you’re dating, and that is very sexy to men.
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