It’s the most wonderful time of the year! And no, I’m not talking about Christmas—it’s finally summer.
As a lifelong LA girl, I may not have grown up with “real” seasons, but I’ve always been obsessed with summer: long days, warm nights, the smell of sunscreen, summer fruit, rooftop margs, and, of course, a new summer crush. Honestly, what’s better? Confession: I always have way more dating luck in the summer months. Something about June through August makes everyone hotter, happier, and just down for a little more fun. If you’ve ever wanted to maximize your own Hot Girl Summer, this is your sign.
Reality Check:
But before we go full-throttle, let’s acknowledge the world feels a little heavy right now. LA has its own icy undertones (emotionally, not just the marine layer). We all need to take extra care—of ourselves and each other.
That’s why we’re reclaiming the original Hot Girl Summer. It’s not about sunset makeouts or spontaneous flings (though, not mad at those). At its core, it’s about finding joy, living confidently, and making yourself feel as fabulous as possible.
Why Is Summer Such a Vibe?
Is it the sun? The longer days? Maybe it’s the serotonin boost, the vitamin D, or just the excuse to eat peaches and wear less clothing. Whatever it is, summer energy is contagious. We’re all more social, spontaneous, and open to new experiences—dating included. Plus, when you’re feeling good, you stop settling for mediocre dates with dudes who just want to “talk about their screenplay.” You raise the bar by treating yourself well first.
Thank You, Megan Thee Stallion
Let’s be honest, we owe it all to Meg: “Just being you, having fun, not giving a damn.” That’s the assignment. Show up for yourself, do what lights you up, and stop waiting for outside validation.
Set Your Summer Goals
What do you want from this summer? New hobby? More hikes? Flirty picnic dates? Or just finally being the best dressed at Nobu? Write it down. Seriously—science says you’re 42% more likely to make it happen. Personally, my goals: get outside every day, eat my weight in farmer’s market peaches, and maybe kiss a cute hippie boy. Dream big, babe.
Self-Care, but Make It Fun
Confidence starts with how you treat yourself. Balance solo time and social time, rest and movement. Drink water, eat well, indulge when you want, and figure out what actually fills your cup (and yes, a round of martinis totally counts).
For the Girls (and the Group Chat)
Nothing compares to Hot Girl Summer energy with your girls, gays, and theys —the crew that hypes you up, tries new things, and gives the best gossip. When your life feels incredible outside of dating, you stop settling and start thriving.
Don’t Wait—Do It Now
Waiting for a guy to take you to Uovo? Book it yourself. Want to hike the Hollywood sign? Grab a friend or go solo. You don’t need permission to live your best life—just do it.
Bottom line:
Hot Girl Summer isn’t a one-size-fits- all vibe. It’s about doing what makes you feel alive—dating or not, hiking or not, whatever you want. Live in your truth, protect your skin (and your heart), and never dim your sparkle. That’s hot.
